The third film of our series discusses anal sex and the men's experiences of the social pressures associated with it. The men talk about the assumptions people make about anal sex and what people consider to be "proper" sex or not. Sex should always be mutually consensual and you should never feel pressured into doing something that doesn't feel right for you. You're also allowed to change your mind at any point and ask to stop. Consenting to sex is different to feeling ready for sex, so before you consent, think about whether you really feel ready and prepared to have sex.

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